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[cq_vc_accordion accordionstyle=”style2″ contentcolor=”#333333″ contentbg=”#ffffff” titlecolor=”#676767″ titlebg=”#ffffff” titlehovercolor=”#333333″ titlehoverbg=”#ffffff”][cq_vc_accordion_item accordiontitle=”Couple Coaching”]« Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction ».

– Antoine de Saint-Exupery

 

Here I accompany couples to “look together in the same direction” … again. Together with my clients, we work on a “different” form of dialogue (echo dialogue). Away from conventional negotiation techniques, which are often suggested in traditional couple’s therapies, but which are unable to resolve the subordinate power struggle in the relationship. The focus within couple coaching is primarily on one’s own childhood: where our needs have not been satisfied and where our innermost image of a relationship has arisen. Here we first realize why we often feel defensive in our relationship, or why the feeling of being with the wrong person occurs, and/or why we do not feel heard and understood by our partner.

Within a neutral atmosphere, as your coach I will be leading both of you through structured dialogues. Within the framework of the conversations, both partners will be given the possibility to cope with their own individual short comings first. From there the ability to truly listen to the other will be honed through specific processes allowing both partners to gradually develop the willingness to adopt new patterns of behavior as a couple.

The new negotiation patterns which both of them created in a joint effort will enable the partners to unconditionally live their love and relationship (again). This allows the wounds of the past to remain where they took place … namely in the past, where they can no longer affect the relationship today.

The sessions will take place with both partners at the same time. At the request of the couples, in addition to the pair coaching (both are present here), individual coaching on the same topic can be booked.[/cq_vc_accordion_item][/cq_vc_accordion]

[cq_vc_accordion accordionstyle=”style2″ contentcolor=”#333333″ contentbg=”#ffffff” titlecolor=”#676767″ titlebg=”#ffffff” titlehovercolor=”#333333″ titlehoverbg=”#ffffff”][cq_vc_accordion_item accordiontitle=”Family coaching”]« Family is like a tree, the branches may grow in different directions, but the roots hold everything together ».

– unknown

 

Our family is an important pillar in our lives because it gives us the feeling of security, bliss and love. Within our family, we are provided with social space for growth, development and skills. But here as well – as everywhere else – we are dealing with people. It is therefore not uncommon for different views, arguments, or even conflicts to arise within the family.

The focus of this form of coaching lies in the future. Together with my clients, I will look at different possibilities to either adapt existing models or to jointly develop new solutions that are necessary.

My role here mainly involves structuring the discussions. This enables my clients to be able to lead not only constructive but also future-oriented dialogues. The goal of this coaching is to ensure that the solutions worked out in the end are satisfying for all involved family members and of a sustainable nature.[/cq_vc_accordion_item][/cq_vc_accordion]